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Jak se sm\u00ed\u0159it s t\u00edm, \u017ee dcera dosp\u00edv\u00e1?\u00a0 I kdy\u017e v\u00e1m dcera dosp\u00edv\u00e1, st\u00e1le m\u016f\u017eete b\u00fdt kamar\u00e1dky Vztahy mezi matkou a dcerou jsou sv\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem jedine\u010dn\u00e9 a n\u011bkdy je tak\u00e9 v\u0161echno tak n\u011bjak nahoru a [&hellip;]","datePublished":"2023-12-29","dateModified":"2023-12-29","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.sieme.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.sieme.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/03ef97ef22d1b0d07a8e6c50d88cc1823592c58a091286b466bcec36e31eaab2?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/03ef97ef22d1b0d07a8e6c50d88cc1823592c58a091286b466bcec36e31eaab2?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"sieme.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.sieme.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/mother-937038_640.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.sieme.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/mother-937038_640.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.sieme.cz\/i-kdyz-vam-dcera-dospiva-stale-muzete-byt-kamaradky\/","about":["\u017dena"],"wordCount":541,"articleBody":"Pouto mezi matkou a dcerou je zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed, siln\u00e9 ale vztahy mohou b\u00fdt i velmi k\u0159ehk\u00e9 a to zejm\u00e9na v pubert\u011b. Jak se sm\u00ed\u0159it s t\u00edm, \u017ee dcera dosp\u00edv\u00e1?\u00a0I kdy\u017e v\u00e1m dcera dosp\u00edv\u00e1, st\u00e1le m\u016f\u017eete b\u00fdt kamar\u00e1dkyVztahy mezi matkou a dcerou jsou sv\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem jedine\u010dn\u00e9 a n\u011bkdy je tak\u00e9 v\u0161echno tak n\u011bjak nahoru a dol\u016f. Pokud z va\u0161\u00ed mal\u00e9 hol\u010di\u010dky ji\u017e roste pomalu \u017eena, dcera p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed do puberty a m\u00e1te pocit, \u017ee si ji\u017e nerozum\u00edte tolik, jako d\u0159\u00edv, je t\u0159eba se nejen p\u0159ipravit na v\u0161echno, ale p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm je nutn\u00e9 nastavit si pravidla. Nep\u0159eh\u00e1n\u011bjte to ale s p\u0159\u00edsnost\u00ed ani se nepokou\u0161ejte d\u00e1vat dce\u0159i rady do \u017eivota. Zkuste b\u00fdt sp\u00ed\u0161e kamar\u00e1dky a sna\u017ete se o to, aby se v\u00e1m dcera mohla v\u017edy se v\u0161\u00edm sv\u011b\u0159it.\u00a0S p\u0159\u00edli\u0161nou p\u0159\u00edsnost\u00ed neusp\u011bjete\u00a0Za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 dcera ponocovat, chce b\u00fdt hodn\u011b s kamar\u00e1dy nebo si dokonce na\u0161la p\u0159\u00edtele? Ano, z va\u0161\u00ed mal\u00e9 princezny roste sle\u010dna, kter\u00e1 chce m\u00edt sv\u00e9 soukrom\u00ed a chce si za\u010d\u00edt u\u017e\u00edvat. Vzpomenete si na to, jak jste to m\u011bla vy v jej\u00edm v\u011bku? Jist\u011b jste na tom byla dost podobn\u011b. Zkuste se proto v\u017e\u00edt do toho, jak se asi va\u0161e dcera c\u00edt\u00ed, co pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1. Pokud chcete, aby se v\u00e1m sv\u011b\u0159ovala s \u00fatrapami l\u00e1sky nebo aby v\u00e1m v\u011b\u0159ila a tud\u00ed\u017e prozradila, kde se skute\u010dn\u011b nach\u00e1z\u00ed, kdy\u017e p\u0159et\u00e1hne ve\u010derku, budete muset s n\u00ed mluvit a ne se sna\u017eit jen v\u0161echno zakazovat. Koneckonc\u016f z\u00e1kazy k ni\u010demu nevedou. D\u016fv\u011bra je to co pot\u0159ebujete, pokud vy budete v\u011b\u0159it sv\u00e9 dce\u0159i, ona bude v\u011b\u0159it v\u00e1m. Pak se v\u00e1m bude i sv\u011b\u0159ovat a n\u00e1sledn\u011b si spole\u010dn\u011b m\u016f\u017eete domluvit pravidla, kter\u00e1 budou dodr\u017eov\u00e1na. Pokud budete jako matka p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 p\u0159\u00edsn\u00e1, d\u00edt\u011b obvykle m\u00e1 pot\u0159ebu proti tomu bojovat po sv\u00e9m.\u00a0M\u00e1te probl\u00e9m? \u0158e\u0161te\u00a0ho hned a spole\u010dn\u011b!Jak\u00e9koliv probl\u00e9my je pot\u0159eba \u0159e\u0161it okam\u017eit\u011b. A\u0165 u\u017e se jedn\u00e1 o \u0161kolu, kluky nebo kamar\u00e1dky, pokud spolu budete mluvit otev\u0159en\u011b, v\u017edy na n\u011bco p\u0159ijdete a probl\u00e9my se tak mohou o to rychleji vy\u0159e\u0161it. Hlavn\u011b svou dceru do ni\u010deho nenu\u0165te, nesna\u017ete se j\u00ed p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 k\u00e1zat a zapome\u0148te na ot\u0159epan\u00e9 fr\u00e1ze. Varovala jste ji? M\u00e1te chu\u0165 \u0159\u00edct, \u017ee jste v\u011bd\u011bla, \u017ee se n\u011bco takov\u00e9ho stane? To ale probl\u00e9my ne\u0159e\u0161\u00ed.\u00a0Pozor tak\u00e9 na p\u0159\u00edli\u0161n\u00fd n\u00e1tlak ohledn\u011b \u0161koly a pl\u00e1n\u016f do budoucna. Pokud m\u00e1te pocit, \u017ee jste vy sama \u0161la v \u017eivot\u011b \u0161patnou cestou, va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b to za v\u00e1s nenaprav\u00ed. D\u011bti by si m\u011bly tak\u00e9 naj\u00edt svou vlastn\u00ed cestu, i kdy\u017e nebude dle v\u00e1s ta nejlep\u0161\u00ed.\u00a0                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        3.2\/5 - (6 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"I kdy\u017e v\u00e1m dcera dosp\u00edv\u00e1, st\u00e1le m\u016f\u017eete b\u00fdt kamar\u00e1dky","item":"https:\/\/www.sieme.cz\/i-kdyz-vam-dcera-dospiva-stale-muzete-byt-kamaradky\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]